Networking on LinkedIn Without Feeling Awkward
- Matthew Coppola
- Aug 11
- 2 min read
LinkedIn can be a powerful networking tool, but for many, the idea of ‘networking’ conjures images of forced conversations and awkward small talk.
The good news? You can build meaningful professional connections on LinkedIn without feeling like you’re pestering people.
1. Be intentional about who you connect with
Rather than sending connection requests to anyone and everyone, focus on people in your industry, alumni from your university, colleagues, or those with shared professional interests. Include a short personalised note — it makes a huge difference.
2. Engage before you connect
If you’ve found someone you’d like to connect with, start by liking or commenting on their posts. This shows genuine interest and increases the chances they’ll accept your request.
3. Give before you ask
Networking is a two-way street. Offer value — whether it’s sharing an insightful article, giving feedback, or making an introduction. People remember generosity.
4. Join and participate in groups
LinkedIn groups can be goldmines for finding like-minded professionals. Contribute to discussions, ask questions, and share relevant resources. It’s a low-pressure way to connect with others.
5. Follow up thoughtfully
If someone accepts your connection request, send a quick thank you message. Keep it short and avoid launching straight into a request for a job or favour. Build rapport first.
6. Stay visible, not intrusive
Posting once or twice a week, commenting on others’ content, and sharing industry news helps you stay on people’s radar without overwhelming their feed.
Final thought: Networking on LinkedIn isn’t about collecting names — it’s about cultivating relationships. Approach it with authenticity, and your connections will be more meaningful and beneficial in the long run.
